My husband is selfish. What more can I say? I recognize that I am VERY angry right now, but it's a fact. All the dating bullshit was just that, bullshit. He put on this great front, caring about the things I cared about. Answering all the questions "correctly". And for what? Just so I would be stuck married to the son of a b..... for eternity. And since I don't believe in divorce, I'm stuck with him. Not only am I stuck cleaning up after him, making him meals, doing his laundry; but I'm stuck with being treated like shit.
In the two years we've been married, he has never ONCE supported me in the things I'm interested in. He supports me with words after I have to state my case and bring facts and statistics to him about the idea, but even after all that, he STILL says, "do you REALLY think having a vegetable garden is worth the initial cost and upkeep?" or, "do you REALLY think taking ballroom dancing classes will get you in shape? I think it's too expensive". Or I get this, maybe you shouldn't have quit your job, b/c we can't afford health insurance now." Well, it's too late for that! HAHAHA!
He travels so much and in the 5 months that we've owned this house, he's only mowed the lawn and stained the deck, and assisted in hooking up the washer/dryer/oven, and helped. I've ripped wallpaper down, I clean it weekly, I've stained thresholds on our new flooring, I've painted the shutters (which he said he would do, and then asked me to do it). I've ripped up bad landscaping, I've mowed the lawn when he wasn't home, I painted all the trim in the house and our bedroom. I've made his phone calls, returned his business emails, I do all the secretarial work for his business.
And I'm EXAUSTED! I'm sick and tired of doing EVERYTHING. He says he wants to hang out with me and go to home depot with me today to help me get the things I need to make my vegetable garden beds, and then we get in the car to go and he flips out at ME! Telling me 'why can't I just let him relax, he doesn't want to go romping through stores, he's been travelling for 6 weeks, bla bla bla'. Well, news flash! I didn't ask him to go!!! He told me he wanted to! Fucking A!
But guess where he is right now? He left to go to radio shack! LOL!
He is a selfish prick. period. He doesn't actively support me in anything that I want to do, and constantly makes excuses. His reasons for not doing something are justifiable somehow to him, but hurt me. Please can SOMEONE tell me something?
When one spouse constantly supports and encourages the other, shouldn't the other spouse, SHUT UP and do the same?
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Sum, I'm so impressed with your ability to freely express yourself! You're blog on Pucchini was full of so much passion and this blog is full of a different kind of passion. Yes, he's being a shit. And yes, he should totally 100% figure out a way to support you- regardless if he agrees with it or not. In my opinion, to heck with him about the veggie garden... DO IT UP GIRL! That will be awesome! And then you can make some excellent fresh salads for yourself and tell him to go to the store to buy his food since he wasn't supportive. hahahaha... Ok- I'm probably not helping matters here. Love you girl!! Keep your chin up and always rest in faith.
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